




Create. Grow. Imagine. Find your passion and run with it. I found mine. (for now)
I sit here writing once again from thousands of feet above the ground in the midst of the 2009 holiday season. It’s the end of a decade, and I’m trying to figure out how many times I’ve actually been LAX-BUF bound, and can’t help but reflect on what this last year has been and what 2010 is going to bring
As I look back on 2009, I look at it as yet another year of growing up, and taking on those ‘next phases in life.’ But at the same time, I’m also remembering those moments where I just want to be a normal 23 year old. For one—this year will be the first year where I’ll be receiving only one W2—and I couldn’t be happier about that. With everything that happened to the economy this year, I’m not only thankful to have a job and thankful to be receiving a W2, but thankful to be working with the people that I do each day, and loving what I’m doing.
This was my sixth year within the event business. It’s hard to believe that I’ve been doing this since I was 17, and professionally now for almost 5 years. I feel as though I learned a lot this year in my work—especially perfecting the process of planning a successful week-long conference, and then a couple months later doing it all over again, with new people, in a new hotel, in a new city. It’s exciting, its organizational (some might say anal), but its something I know I love to do, and I know I’m good at.
As I entered my second year at BDI Events, I’m still happy, and excited about where I am currently at. Being onsite at an event is what keeps that energy alive and growing. Once I land in a city, get my feet on the ground and start bringing another event to life—I’m simply refreshed and rejuvenated with endless amounts of energy that I wish I had everyday. Not to mention, the relationships that I have developed with each of my bosses in the last year has been incredible. They have become part of my West Coast family.
This year was also a year for planes, miles, points, hotels, and cities. January was Boston, February was Anaheim, somewhere in March & April I took a trip to Buffalo, May was Washington D.C. & NYC, June was Wine Country & Denver, July was San Diego & Buffalo, August was Monterrey & Chicago, September was Chicago again, October & November I banned myself from going anywhere, and December was NYC and now Buffalo to end the year. Each one of those experiences was just another experience in which I was continuing to move into the ‘next phase in life,’ some with family, some with work, and some with friends. I’ve also become an expert in the world of travel points, thanks to my boss Bob. If you’re curious, my preferred partners are now United & Delta, as well as Marriott & Starwood. J
And I couldn’t go through 2009 without mentioning the fact that I made an ‘investment’ in Sherman Oaks, CA in Condo #209. J Who buys a condo at 23? I do. It is one of the most ongoing learning experiences that I’ve ever had in life. From the process of looking for a place, to placing offers on some, to filling out the endless amounts of paperwork for the one I purchased, it has all been a learning experience. It all was new to me—a new challenge. And since moving in this past July, I’ve had to do the many ‘grown up’ things such as picking out carpet and paying a mortgage. And now 6 months later, I feel I have grown up so much, by just having to do all of these things on my own.
So now what? What’s missing? What’s to look forward to in 2010? There’s something inside of me that is telling me that it is going to be another good year—another big year. We have a fantastic lineup of events in Denver, Chicago, NYC, Monterrey, Detroit, & LA, so I know I will at least be jet setting at least once a month for the next 9 months. But I’m excited and anxious to see how this year turns out as a whole. I know that things are just going to continue to change, and I’m going to continue to grow up whether I want to or not, and continue moving forward in whatever I do next. And being the planner that I am, I will try and prepare myself for some of those, but deep down, I do know that you can’t plan for everything.
Whatever I do, I hope that I can continue to do it with the incredible friends and family that I have around me. Some of my favorite moments in 2009 are from sitting around with one friend, or a group of friends at a dinner table, enjoying each other’s company over a good meal, and a tasty beer or a good glass of wine. Though most are getting hitched, or settling into serious relationships, I’m thankful that they are still willing and enjoy listening to my rants and raves about who I met, what I’m working on, how sometimes I’m ‘perfectly lonely,’ and what I’m dreaming up for the future.
As I’m sitting here typing this, I am of course listening to the new John Mayer CD, “Battle Studies,” aka, Joe Martin’s life. I’m going to sound very ‘2010’ when I say this, but it’s reminding me of a recent ‘tweet’ John Mayer posted—that stuck with me. It’s from one of his songs…
Life ain’t a fairy tale. It’s a documentary.
And if any of you know me—that’s quite different than what I normally would think or say. But I think the other JM (John Mayer that is) has got something here…so stay tuned as 2010 unfolds…
Yesterday morning I flew to Chicago from LA, and today I’m returning back to the sweltering heat of the southland. At the current moment I would define my current feelings as ‘on-fire’ about what I do for a living and whom I do it with. I got to come to Chicago to do a site visit for a conference that our company will be producing in 2010 at the Marriott Downtown Magnificent Mile. And in just a few weekends we will be producing the National Prostate Cancer Conference—a conference for the patients.
I’m beginning to really get use to corporate travel (and might even be becoming a hotel wh*re along the way) but I’m ok with that. As I’m sitting here (with my seatbelt fastened of course), I’m feeling truly blessed for the opportunities I have been given in the past year with BDI Events. I’ve been to Denver, San Diego, Monterrey/Pacific Grove, Washington DC, and now Chicago in less than a year. I will not lie that when I first started as a Conference Director, I thought—am I going to get bored with this? To my surprise, I’ve really grown to love it, and have found areas that get me excited and really meant for me; one of those being the whole logistical angle of how conferences are setup.
For those of you that think what we do is ‘cake’’—it most certainly is not and causes headaches for most people, which is why they hire us. The gift of a good event producer is that they don’t get stressed and overwhelmed. Diagrams, meeting spaces, budgets, audio visual components, successful marketing, keynote speakers, musicians, travel, registrations, for 600 to 1000 people all take EXTREME organization and anal retentiveness. This is what I love, and this is what I’ve always said I do best.
The client that we met with is a New Thought spiritual organization. They are wonderful people to work with, and I’m very excited about the team that is on board for their 2010 conference in downtown Chicago. I’m excited to begin working on their budget to assist them in figuring out ways to make money, create an intense marketing plan to meet the registration goals, and to create an experience for their attendees in which they will walk away satisfied for coming to their annual summer conference.
So as I continue to sit here—I’m feeling energized about what I’m doing and where I’m currently at. I love that I can say that I love what I do AND where I do it. Some people can only say the earlier rather than the later. I’ve said this on multiple occasions and will say it again that I really do have the best 3 bosses around. I think this is only just the beginning with myself and BDI and I cannot wait to see what is in store for me next, and where the company grows in the upcoming years. We may be small—but we know what were doing…and we’re on our way…
A strong practice of New Thought followers is to set ‘intentions.’ I’ve always been one for ‘putting it out there,’ and as I reflect on what I’ve done, it seems to be working. I like to call these ‘goals’ rather than intentions though. Recently I set the goal to bring in or assist in bringing in three new clients for our company in the next year. Tomorrow we have a meeting that I setup with someone about a festival for us to work on—and I think we’re going to sign on with them. One down…two to go.
Happy. Energized, Excited. Blessed. This is where I’m at in my career at age 22.